Lindsay Donnelly, a mother of two young children aged 7 and 4, recently went viral on TikTok after posting a video calling out her husband. The video, shared on June 3, quickly caught attention as Lindsay expressed her frustration over a comment her husband made, accusing her of doing nothing around the house.
Determined to prove her point, Lindsay decided to take her husband’s words literally. For two days, she did exactly what he claimed—nothing. The result was documented in a video where Lindsay walked through their home, capturing the chaos that unfolded in her absence. Dirty plates piled on the kitchen counter, toys and shoes scattered across the floor, a sink full of dishes, laundry accumulating in the living room, and a bathroom in disarray—all evidence of the essential work she does daily.
Lindsay’s intention was clear: to show her husband just how much she contributes to keeping their home in order, even if her efforts often go unnoticed. To further drive her point home, after her two days of inactivity, Lindsay went on a ‘girls trip,’ leaving her husband to manage the mess. Tagged with #marriagehumor, the video resonated with many, amassing nearly 15 million views and millions of likes and comments.
The video’s viral success even led to an interview with TODAY.com, where Lindsay and her husband clarified that they are, in fact, a happy and fun-loving couple. Lindsay explained that her husband’s comment was made during a moment of frustration while he was cleaning up in the kitchen as she was getting their kids ready for bed. Rather than responding with anger, Lindsay chose a more creative approach by highlighting the often-invisible labor that keeps their household running smoothly.
A few days after posting the initial video, Lindsay shared a follow-up video in which she gave her husband a chance to apologize. Unbeknownst to him, the first video had gone viral. In the follow-up, Lindsay defended her husband’s character, playfully referring to his remark as a ‘poo poo butt move.’ Though he did apologize, some viewers questioned his sincerity in the comments.
Despite the mixed reactions, Lindsay reassured her TikTok followers that her husband is a good partner and father. Outside of their viral TikTok moments, Lindsay works as a photographer and runs a social media marketing agency, while her husband is involved in venture capital.
Lindsay Donnelly’s TikTok experience underscores the power of social media in amplifying everyday moments and sparking meaningful conversations. It also serves as a reminder of the importance of recognizing and valuing the often unseen work that goes into maintaining a household.
