On National Grief Awareness Day, Lisa Marie Presley spoke candidly about the tragic experience of losing her son Benjamin Keough, age 27, to suicide.
She described the incident as a sudden, devastating blow that left her and her three children shattered and unable to move on.
Contrary to popular belief, Presley was certain that grief could not be overcame or replaced. She insisted that one must endure it for the rest of their lives.
She made a point of saying that even though it is extremely difficult to live with, pretending otherwise and attempting to push the feelings away or reject them is not logical or beneficial to anyone.
Because of the unbearable pain of such a sudden loss, Lisa Marie Presley’s life was characterized by great sorrow and suffering, unlike anything she had ever known. Her entire world abruptly changed, leaving her and her daughters to battle every day in the absence of Benjamin.
They were terrified about the future without him, but they couldn’t bear to leave their house, which held so many happy and painful memories.
Few people are willing to provide ongoing support and comfort to those who have experienced a significant loss, making grief a very lonely emotion. For those who are touched, this reality might be difficult, as Presley so beautifully put it.
Whether it has been months or only a few days, making an effort to reach out to people who are grieving can make all the difference in the world. A straightforward phone call, personal visit, or thoughtful card can show you care and be greatly appreciated by the bereaved.
Although it might not ease their suffering, it might offer comfort in unquestionably one of their darkest moments.
Speaking to others about the lost loved one also brings comfort to many people. This serves as a way to remember and honor the person who passed away too soon as well as strengthening bonds between family members and friends.
It may be helpful in many ways to hear about people’s memories because it can make us appreciate beauty even when life is darkest.
Presley believes that getting help can benefit those who have experienced a similar loss and that she finds comfort in being around other people who have experienced grief.
As a result, she frequently travels to host support groups in her home for others. Presley is determined to carry on for her daughters despite the excruciating pain that comes with such a loss because this was something her son made clear was his top priority before he passed away.
The care and protection of his younger sisters was clearly one of his top priorities in the hours before his death. Presley will therefore carry on helping them as she is, pushing through the excruciating pain that has now become an integral part of her being.
